Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Mesmerizing 4 years....

Today, we had 4th last exam of our graduation. 3 more on the way, and whoa... we are graduate and engineers.... quite surprising, & kinda shocking too.....
It appears that yesterday only we had joined college, & its now time to move out of it. Time really passes away so fast... just like a flick.....
Yesterday we met, enjoyed today and tomorrow we'll part our ways.... Really what a fantastic years these have been, gave so many things, made us meet best people, gave us enough, though not the best, but not worst i suppose. Every coin has two flips, its up to us where we focus upon.

Now, extracting the pulp out of the time just passing away, i can recall, our counselling, college joining, new friends, a kinda new world. Then a feeling of discontent too from within for not making up into some more better college, but then a self boost, that doesn't matter, we'll deliver our best here. Then our first ragging, lots of assignment, strict jail like schedule, crying for attendance and those threatening letters being dispatched to our homes and some weird kinda teachers. Then those girls staring business, n giving them conventions like 'meri wali n teri wali'. Just feel like laughing when these moments got out from some corner of brain. Then those memorable trips around places with friends, celebrating festivals, and frequent visits to home every alternate week. Wow, if we sit start counting, there are endless such ones. Most beautiful and adorable.
And time just passed away then, so quick, n fast, then semesters passing away. 
Some kinda technical festivals, some seminars, but mostly show off..... But now many things have changed... some seriousness and feeling of getting involved and to be its part has crawled in......

Then semester passing by, friends getting more closer by heart and now they have become special ones. And teachers, whom we initially boasted, became integral part of people whom we like, coz they all may not be very good at teaching but they excel in many other turfs.
Well then, library renovation, getting new canteen, watching new college building being built side by, getting new auditorium, and then some more experienced people joining us to share their experiences. 
And then placements.... well certainly quite tough and not so good..... but many frns getting some or the other offers, and mostly by their own toil and efforts. Here our college could have played a significant role, but doesn't matter, as time will pass and more students will get placed into good MNC's, automatically this things gonna get much better.
Well then a memorable farewell to bid us good bye, and seriously this was that very day, when all of our batch-mates, enjoyed together, had a fantastic dance and undoubtedly best photo-shoot we could have ever had. Then again those last few days of studying, last set of vivas and again some more photo sessions....

Seriously, somebody had rightly said, college days are the best in ones life.
With this happy note and wishing all my friends, a very best for future....... end up here.....
I sincerely thank god for giving these b'ful days and lovely friends and best teachers...

Monday, May 10, 2010

Love you Maa....

This post is dedicated to most beautiful gift of nature in our life - Our Mother.
If we observe our calendar for special occasions, we find that there's a day for almost every event related to our life, say it, peace day, disarmament week, traffic week, earth day, water day, days for deadly diseases like aids day, cancer day, and days for relations in our lives like valentine's day, fathers day, sister's day, and the list goes on.
Here, i would focus onto yesterday, which was mother's day. Previously i thought that this day is celebrated globally on the same day, but on googling it, it was found that, in different regions, it is celebrated on different days. Though there are numerous theories for the question - how this day was recognized and marked as mothers day, all of them, converge towards the same point and express the warmth of mother's love, care & affection in numerous ways possible & in different ideas.
When we remember our mom, the first thought that clicks to our mind is her love, care and worries for us. She's the part of our life, which provides best emotional support for us, and does everything possible to keep us happy and in well being state. She, apart from being from a very good friend, is also a very good teacher too. We learn many necessary qualities for a good life, like unconditional love, sacrifice, good listener, pragmatic behaviour, understanding abilities, forgiveness and lots more. To say it in one line, she's a complete person and best gift, which nature has endowed us with.
So to celebrate the presence & essence of our dear moms, we celebrate this auspicious day. Its very enchanting to discover various methods & techniques, which people device out to give surprise, gifts, parties, etc to her. Newspapers, internet, msgs, blogs, etc are full of such information of enthusiasm and excitement with which this day's been celebrated.
In all to say, she's a very important part of one's life and the most deserving person i find.
But, its tough to find out that still, in some part, women's condition is not so good and eventually, a mother is suffering and bearing pain in some or the other way. But as well educated persons are joining governing bodies and new practical policies being designed, women's status is given a prior importance and initiatives are taken for her upliftment.
So, do take care and take notice of the vitality of our mother and we must take care of her.

I find ourselves very blessed to have such a wonderful person in our life.

Dedicated to all the mothers....
Love you Maa....  :):):)

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Amazing Graduation Love Stories.......

Being on the verge of my engineering life, its quite amazing to have observed so many love stories of guys n gals around me, which were more popular than any controversial topic, and gave a central theme for so called BAKAR or gossips ;). They started with lot of excitement, involved a lot of anxiety, feelings, long awaits, gossips, and fun. Some were no less than any high profile drama, and ended so weirdly that people now dont face each other. While some were so beautiful, that they set a benchmark and can be used to understand teenage love and observe the maturity and commitment level of people at such small age & they certainly make one to feel envy.

Well, an important aspect of these lovely stories are friends, who sometimes help, but mostly eagerly search a point to pull legs. A very true and funny part about friends is that, if you ever tell them about any girl, or if by mistake they see you talking to any girl, they would tease you and cook stories and even if you dont have any feelings, they'll make you to have them, as this would be the topic they would continously discuss. Very funny....

Now focussing onto some more important facts, it would be cool to start with the event of hunting for network with least tariffs, which help them to remain connected - always. Hmm, message schemes do play a significant role out here too. They spend sleepless nights and sometimes attend natures call too simultaneously :-o. Overall to say, this is one very important phaze of life and a very cute indeed.

One ugly aspect of this is that some get so involved so much, that they get distracted from their path, and often get involved into some or the other kind of addictions too. Some even apparently find almost no time to talk to their family ones who have brought them up. Well such cases are fewer only, whereas in general mostly keep a thorough balance between the two. B-)

So, finally coming to another important point, as to what does it require to initiate a love story, or how does it get started & if it has already been started, then what does it demands for it to carry on easily and, why does it fails in most cases. If we start counting, we can recall endless such connections, but only a few of them would be found existing still and moving with same enthusiasm and be able to carve out a happy ending.
Well in view, love happens just like that, it may start with some attraction or admiration. Some also start when one get to know about how a person is from within, by his beliefs and views. While most of them start with some kind of physical attraction and mostly end up without significant results.
Hmm, now deviating towards the notion that they mostly fail, coz of expectations. Love requires freedom and most of the times people become possessive and ends up losing one most beautiful relation of life. Love is like a pigeon which is to be set free in air, it looks more wonderful when its in sky rather than when it's in cage.

Now, in the end, the ones who make up to their destinations and make up a lasting relations do require a lot of commitments and faith in one self. Love is never an easy task and it has lots n lots of twist and turns, which if not handled carefully, can screw ones life, but if handles well, it gives a joy and additional beauty to our entire journey of life.

Lastly, it can be concluded, that once in a life do fall in love because its serenity can't be enjoyed without getting involved into it, and if you are lucky one to have it from both sides, or even if you don't get it now, never get disheartened, coz someday you'll have it.