Nice Funny Little Hypocritical World..

We live in a nice funny little hypocritical tailor-stitched world. If we feel any uncomfortability, we make alterations as and when needed. It applies for the rules also that we create and bend. And this habit is so deep inbibed in us that even God is not spared. I still have questions about the sole existence of God, but yeah I am not an atheist or a devout theist.
Any ways coming to the point, this is about God's name being dragged with our food habits.
Someone said to me, "Oh today is Ganesh Chaturthi, you should not eat this".
Ok. When asked about, why so, he says, "It's a sin".
I say, then what about the day when there's no such occasion or any similar event associated...!!!
The person clealy states, "Its fine on other days. You can have what ever you like on any other day. It's no problem".
Now here arrives the custom alterations.. The sole notion of existence of God, then appears as if it was created for one's own good and benefit.
Now, this is one such event. We have such plenty around us now. Say for example, you belong to a certain state.. Oh then you will be saved from disastrous natural calamity, and if you are not, then you will be left on mercy of God.
One more, Oh you belong to certain caste, you are entitled for so and so benefit.. and if you are not, God is their for you who to take care and upliftment.

It is a pity that such events still occur in a well educated society. Not to brag or defame anybody, but its a question on our thoughts, beliefs and actions.

To Forgive

"To Err Is Human, To Forgive is Divine"
"Forgive And Forget"
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and many more.....
There have been many such famous sayings i have gone through, but until life. this has been the toughest challenge for me.
One said, "Tolerance is Highest degree of our Strength, and Desire to Take Revenge is the first sign of weakness"

This one's too OK.... taken for granted....

But forgiving someone does seem to be cakewalk or so easy as these statements describe. Having past through twenty few years of life, so many times quite many incidents might have happen, and quite so many of them I don't even remember. But one recent I am not able to get over....

I read somewhere, don't ignore any problem instead go for it and solve it completely, or else it will be subsidized by today's ignorance act, and somewhere deep down it would leave its remains and at sometime later it would creep up with more firm platform and leave no space for the finest streak of ray fro lettingget over it.

Something similar seems to happen now too, as if somethings were being kept ignored and now they are creating nuisance. Mind is implicitly pondering over it, and after trying hard, things aren't getting normal.

Not digressing from the theme, Forgiving (which may be one solution) isn't a child's play. It takes huge courage to go for it...
Oops, one important thing to notice..... "All these things matter if you value th person concerned". If person is lies nowhere, then there's no point in thinking so much and get yours nerves down.
So, before even forgiving or thinking of such things, analyze the importance of the person, then one would get over such thoughts very easily.
The thing that I didn't notice here, was that Emotions were being laid a greater stress than Relations and so did such things were happening.....

So, leaving it at a lighter node, Incidents are part n parcel of life, but not people. We gotta deal with people, and not with incidents.... Ryt na...??
 Better let it go, and Move On....!!! :)

Letter to an Old Frnd..!!!

Dear friend,

Kaise ho aur kya haal chaal hain..... Main yahan mast hu aur sab kushal mangal hai, aur aisa hi kuch tumhare darmayan bhi ummeed karta hu... Kafi samay se tumhari na koi khabar aayi na hi koi khat, badi yaad aaj aarahi thi aaj teri, to socha ki ek khat likhu...:)

Yu to tujhe aksar miss karta hu, wo ghanto lambi batein karna, wo logo k saath me maze lena, wo lambe drive par jana, wo achanak plan banakar aas paas ke saare ilake ghumna, wo choti choti baaton pe naaraz hona, fir manana, wo Dassu-banku-aur sagara estate party ke sath maze karna, wo yadav ka nashta aur wo makaan malik ka haddkana, na jane kya kya.....

kitna kuch yaad aata hai yr.... aur ek tu hai ki jese bhul hi gaya.... He he, jyada senti maar diya.. :D... par shayad nahi rey, tu bhi life me busy ho gaya hai aur kinhi kaaran se baat na kar paya ho... Kabhi kabhi to tere pe bahut gussa bhi aaya ki dekho to, kitna badal gaya, kabhi contach nahi karta, aur wagerah wagerah, par khud ke jeevan ka akalan karke sara gussa thanda ho jata hai...

Khair tera wahan par kya chal raha hai, job kesi chal rahi hai, aur naye logo k beech me kesa samay guzar raha hai.... College life to badi mazadar hua karti thi aur sab dosto k saath baith kar gappe karna us samay ke sabse anokhe pal thay... :).. Par suna hai ki job life me kafi kuch badal sa jata hai, aur utna samay nahi mil pata hai, isliye koi baat nahi.... College me to tu khub bak bak karta tha, ab bhi waisa hi hai na... gharwale sab kese hain.. chota kesa hai aur uski padhai kesi chal rahi hai... uske board exams honge na is saal, aur aunty kesi hai? Unke haathon ke bahjiye aur parathon ko bada miss kiya hai yr, aur esp chai... chai ke to hum shaukeen hi thay.. ;) Uncle ji kese hain, unko mera pranam kehna.

Me yaha thik hu, aur mere PG ka dusra semester khtm hone wala hai. Naya shahar aur bhi mast hai aur naye dost bhi khub hain aur har koi ek se badhkar ek. Yaha ek mera bahut achcha dost bana, jise hum Mr India bulate hain, qki wo aksar gayab rehta tha, aur ek mast dost Masahab... Baki sab bhi mast hai. Aur haan college me to jese namuno ki gang taiyar ki hai mene, jisme 2 banduk baaz hain, 1 pyari si koyal k awaaz wali Koki hai, ek badmash par masoom Choti hai, ek Miss Jadugar hai, ek choti si par moti si Jumbo hai aur ek Scientist hai. College me roj ka guzra hua pal, din ke sabse behtareen lamhe hotey hain. 

In pichle 8 mahine me lagbhag poora shahar ghum liya hai, aur ab mauka padte hi bachi kuchi jagah bhi jane ka hota rehta hai. College ki zindagi bhi anuthi hai yahan, yahan kai nayi avasar hai, aur humare pichle college se adhunik hai. Celebrities ka yaha aana aam hai, aur functions hona to aam baat si hai. Ek se badhkar ek logo se milne ka mauka bhi milta hai, aur har roj kuch naya sikhne ko hota hai. 

Ye toh hui meri yahan ki dastan, jisme roj naye panne judte ja rahe hain. Tum apna uttar jaldi dena aur apni nayi jindgi se rubaroo kara. Sabhi ko mera pranam dena aur chote ko dher saara pyar aur Good Luck.

Achcha, aur baki humare mitro ki toli kidhar kidhar bikhar gayi hai, zara sabke haal chal aur unke patey bhi dena, taki sabse baat kar saku. Purane college me kabhi jana hua kya, waha k kaise haal chaal hain, aasha hai, humare Chairman ne 2-4 aur nayi building to khichwa hi di hogi... :D

Chalo, jaldi uttar dena. aur khayal rakhna... 

Tumhara mitr,

SS.. 

PS: This is a letter by which i hv addressed some of my very close friends, whom m in still contact wid but den too, was missing dem so wrote dis article. To not to sound partial or mean at any point i hv kept it as general as i cud, and so feel free to read on and comment  as u like....

Aj Bahut Gussa Hai....

Yu to ab aisa kuch kehna kisi bachche ke muh se nikle huye bol lagte hai, par ye asal me kisi vyakhyat bachche k to nahi, par humare andar kahin door chupe huye masoom se bachche ke jarur hai. Kabi kabi lagta hai, samajhdar hona bhi jese galat ho, kash hum bachche hi hote, to kam se kam, humari bhawnayein utni hi asli aur masoom hoti.

Aj gussa kyu hai, kyunki kisi ne kch keh diya, kisi se khamakha bahas ho gayi, bus late ho gayi, tiffin achcha nahi tha, teacher ne daata, aur na jane kya kya.... Kuch aisa tha, ki in kaarano ki parchi to jese khoob jyada hi lambi thi, aur rojana kch naya judd jata tha. Aur jitna jaldi gussa hota tha, utne hi jaldi thanda hota tha. Jis dost se khafa hote, usse agle pal hi baat karte aur mana lete. Jo kabi maa-bapu se daat khakar narajgi hoti, wo agle hi pal kuch farmaish ka khayal aatey hi choo-mantar ho jati.

Par aj ka gussa hona kitna badal gaya hai mano. Aj kisi se gussa hota hai, to sabse pehle beech ki ungli dikhate h, usse manana to choddo, shakl dekhne ki iksha nahi karte.... Teacher se kch panga jo ho jaye, to palat k jawab dene me tak nahi chukte, jo koi kch keh de to palat k kehne me to sochne se b kam waqt lagta hai.....Aj sachchi kitna gussa hai... Hai na....

Par, jab vicharon aur humare harkaton ka muaina karo to malum hota hai, ki kitna parivartan ho gaya hai aur kitna banwatipan humare andar, na jane kahan se, sama gaya hai. Kisi se muskura kar milne k peeche tak koi maksad hota hai, mitrata to door ki baat, dushmani bhi kisi sochi samjhi gehri saajish se hoti hai. Kisi ka bura ya bhala, samaj me kuch naya ya koi badlaw, ya samay ki kuch jarurat, har chiz kisi karan se hai. 

Hum jo pana chahte hai, wo yadi na miley to gussa hai, par pados me koi bhuk se marey to, hume kya, koi aur hoga, wo dekhe. Humare bhawnaon ka sab khayal rakhein, par desh ko jo log loot rahey hai, unke prati kya kehte hai hum, CBI hai, supreme court(sarvochya nyayalaya), vagerah hai, wo dekhege..... na janey, kabi dekhega bhi ya nahi, par hume kya, humko to aj apne hi kisi karan par gussa hai...

Ek samay tha, jab kisi vakya ka ek hi matlab hota tha aur koi baat ho to dil se mukurahat nikalti thi, par aj, har vakya me do matlab malum hotey hai, aur dusra wala dimag me rekhankit hokar, chehre par muskurahat ki lakir khichta hai....

Aj khana kharab mila, to khana banane wala par to gussa hai, par aj maa ne kya khaya, puchne ki tak fursat nahi. Kisi ne bura kaha, ta-umr yaad rakhte, par hazaron ne lakhon bhalai ki, uska ek bhi hisab nahi. Ek waqt ki baat thi, jab kisi ke karya ya kriya ko uski nazariye se sahi thehrakar, usko apne paimano se taul kar, apna lete thay. Pa aj to sabse pehle khud ki mahatta ka khayal jyada hota hai, aur kisi anya ke kaarya, humare hisab se hona hi, humare drishtikon ko sahi lagta hai.

To ant me akhir sawal yahi uth raha hai, ki kya humari soch kitni sankuchit ho gayi hai aur gussa hone ka paimana kitna badal gaya hai. Nazariya ka to sampoorna ulat pher ho gaya hai, aur na jane kya-kya aisa hi kuch gaya, jinko shabdon me vyakt karna utna hi kathin lag raha hai. jitna ki kisi ke kahey huye vyanga ko sakaratmak drishtikon ke roop me lena hota hai.

Aj koi bola, ki yadi is duniya se jung-burai-aapsimatbhed khatam karne hai, to kisi antriksh praniyo dwara prithwi par humla karwa do. Aur shayad ye sabse achcha vikalp bhi hai humari soch ke dayre ka utthaan ke liye. Kya khayal hai, hai na sahi baat....!!!

Kehne ko to na jane abi kya kya hai, par is samay ki aur bhi mahatwapurna jaruratein hain, jinhe pura karna shayad apni bhawnaon ko likhne se jyada jaruri hai. Aur na janey, kya likhne ko baitha tha, kya likh diya, sachchi, "Aj bahut gussa hai"........ ;)

Anonymous

Of many entries made so far, dis one seems to go widout theme and it wud be appropriate to name it as anonymous. Well, it happens sometimes, state of mind is unclear and tasks to do in such a state goes out of question. So, what to do then, the best one found, sort out a few favorite tracks, plug in ur ear-piece and enjoy them in best comfortable way. The world goes in one side and slowly we start getting clearing up with things muddling till now, and dis i found one best way of giving time to self.

Another way i found to get in touch with inner self, is scribbling your imaginations. Jot down whatever is going thru and slowly the heart would reveal everything it has kept as treasure in itself.

There's been a girl from my graduation days whom i miss a lot, may be i might have loved her a lot. To be honest, I love her in a way in some special way, "one sided". But there's a bitter truth i know very well, dat she cudn't be mine, n so all what i wish dat, she gets all happiness in her life. I don't complain like, oh why not her only, or something else. May be now as she has moved on and so do have I, it may be just for making me feel what a care and feelings for other can be, and see this world in a more beautiful way. The days seems more enjoying, morning goes afresh and the day, exciting. :)

Keeping these senti thots apart, facing reality, time is do best and leave this part for time being. Everything has happened at ryt time till now, n so wud it happening in future too, and I would meet the right one at right time.

This age's has been quite a lot, Sms's Period, thnks to technology, and it has let to spread all sort of ideas like anything. I mean, there are some very good 1s, some worst, some mindblowing PJ's and the best naughty 1s. :D

1 such says, until you find ryt 1, keep njying wrong 1s. Lolz, this might seem ryt to few, but for me, its good in inbox only. In reality, it doesn't seems right. 

Ahaa, one more thing, the leg pulling acts and time spent wid frnz, is priceless. Its among best moments of life one gets, and shud be respected and celebrated. I like throwing NV jokes too, n mind it, it puts in trouble sometimes, but in company of ur good frnz, ur creativity seems to attain its peak ;).

Ha ha, jokes apart, life's is really beautiful as people say, and living each moments lets to embrace its serenity. Now as formally said, to pen down, i end my talk and share something else some other day.

Em hm, one good thot i heard somedays before, about what is luck. Most of us define in some or the other way, but this was something xtra-ordinary and sharing here wud be worth... 

It goes like this, "Luck - to raise yourself to such a level, dat b4 granting, even god asks, what do u want..."

So, give ur best effort in everything you do, n listen to ur heart... it tells good things and helps to take decisions, apart from continuously beating only.... :D

A Feeling Lost... or A Step Ahead

Quite long it has been since i am reposting here. Well, I'll focus here on the changing scenario of life and situations affecting our life so much that once those who couldn't remain without other, haven't spoken to themselves since months....
Quite surprising and a bit funny too, but its become a ugly truth with many. During my final year of grads, I used to talk with various pass-outs, about their whereabouts and their relationships and hows there life goin.... Most of them reported that, everything's fine, just friend circle got limited and interactions with friends have gone down exponentially.
One more thing that happened to be observed is the distance or gap which is now felt. The warmth of 4 years of being classmates, being friends is gone... May be if not gone, then definitely got hidden somewhere very deep like those of dinosaurs under earth's crust.
Also, there's been few cases where clash of ego has started and competitions seem to control our lives do much, that we forget that we are first humans, and then competitors.
It could be that, this is my perception and I might have narrowed it, but after trying at level best, its getting tough to carry on the same with all. No doubt, there are few who are still close to you so much that its takes fraction of second to hear them and to feel the same good old friendship, and they are clearly our very own best buddies whom we got to meet.
But as life says, keep the past in past and move on....
Following the same path, because, I don't have whole life to walk my own path and then learn from my experiences, its sometimes better to use others ones. So, following the culture, let past be in there, future is unseen, its better to enjoy present. Take care of the existing relations, and the ones which seem to be gone, either try damn hard and get them back as they were... or just let some get lost away...
During refining of sand, some good part also gets lost, and it happens so for some good only. So, moving on, enjoy the life and life it to your fullest as we get it only once.
Feel free to give your reviews...

Mesmerizing 4 years....

Today, we had 4th last exam of our graduation. 3 more on the way, and whoa... we are graduate and engineers.... quite surprising, & kinda shocking too.....

It appears that yesterday only we had joined college, & its now time to move out of it. Time really passes away so fast... just like a flick.....

Yesterday we met, enjoyed today and tomorrow we'll part our ways.... Really what a fantastic years these have been, gave so many things, made us meet best people, gave us enough, though not the best, but not worst i suppose. Every coin has two flips, its up to us where we focus upon.

Now, extracting the pulp out of the time just passing away, i can recall, our counselling, college joining, new friends, a kinda new world. Then a feeling of discontent too from within for not making up into some more better college, but then a self boost, that doesn't matter, we'll deliver our best here. Then our first ragging, lots of assignment, strict jail like schedule, crying for attendance and those threatening letters being dispatched to our homes and some weird kinda teachers. Then those girls staring business, n giving them conventions like 'meri wali n teri wali'. Just feel like laughing when these moments got out from some corner of brain. Then those memorable trips around places with friends, celebrating festivals, and frequent visits to home every alternate week. Wow, if we sit start counting, there are endless such ones. Most beautiful and adorable.

And time just passed away then, so quick, n fast, then semesters passing away. 

Some kinda technical festivals, some seminars, but mostly show off..... But now many things have changed... some seriousness and feeling of getting involved and to be its part has crawled in......

Then semester passing by, friends getting more closer by heart and now they have become special ones. And teachers, whom we initially boasted, became integral part of people whom we like, coz they all may not be very good at teaching but they excel in many other turfs.

Well then, library renovation, getting new canteen, watching new college building being built side by, getting new auditorium, and then some more experienced people joining us to share their experiences. 

And then placements.... well certainly quite tough and not so good..... but many frns getting some or the other offers, and mostly by their own toil and efforts. Here our college could have played a significant role, but doesn't matter, as time will pass and more students will get placed into good MNC's, automatically this things gonna get much better.

Well then a memorable farewell to bid us good bye, and seriously this was that very day, when all of our batch-mates, enjoyed together, had a fantastic dance and undoubtedly best photo-shoot we could have ever had. Then again those last few days of studying, last set of vivas and again some more photo sessions....

Seriously, somebody had rightly said, college days are the best in ones life.

With this happy note and wishing all my friends, a very best for future....... end up here.....

I sincerely thank god for giving these b'ful days and lovely friends and best teachers...