"To Err Is Human, To Forgive is Divine"
"Forgive And Forget"
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and many more.....
There have been many such famous sayings i have gone through, but until life. this has been the toughest challenge for me.
One said, "Tolerance is Highest degree of our Strength, and Desire to Take Revenge is the first sign of weakness"
This one's too OK.... taken for granted....
But forgiving someone does seem to be cakewalk or so easy as these statements describe. Having past through twenty few years of life, so many times quite many incidents might have happen, and quite so many of them I don't even remember. But one recent I am not able to get over....
I read somewhere, don't ignore any problem instead go for it and solve it completely, or else it will be subsidized by today's ignorance act, and somewhere deep down it would leave its remains and at sometime later it would creep up with more firm platform and leave no space for the finest streak of ray fro lettingget over it.
Something similar seems to happen now too, as if somethings were being kept ignored and now they are creating nuisance. Mind is implicitly pondering over it, and after trying hard, things aren't getting normal.
Not digressing from the theme, Forgiving (which may be one solution) isn't a child's play. It takes huge courage to go for it...
Oops, one important thing to notice..... "All these things matter if you value th person concerned". If person is lies nowhere, then there's no point in thinking so much and get yours nerves down.
So, before even forgiving or thinking of such things, analyze the importance of the person, then one would get over such thoughts very easily.
The thing that I didn't notice here, was that Emotions were being laid a greater stress than Relations and so did such things were happening.....
So, leaving it at a lighter node, Incidents are part n parcel of life, but not people. We gotta deal with people, and not with incidents.... Ryt na...??
Better let it go, and Move On....!!! :)
"Forgive And Forget"
.
.
.
and many more.....
There have been many such famous sayings i have gone through, but until life. this has been the toughest challenge for me.
One said, "Tolerance is Highest degree of our Strength, and Desire to Take Revenge is the first sign of weakness"
This one's too OK.... taken for granted....
But forgiving someone does seem to be cakewalk or so easy as these statements describe. Having past through twenty few years of life, so many times quite many incidents might have happen, and quite so many of them I don't even remember. But one recent I am not able to get over....
I read somewhere, don't ignore any problem instead go for it and solve it completely, or else it will be subsidized by today's ignorance act, and somewhere deep down it would leave its remains and at sometime later it would creep up with more firm platform and leave no space for the finest streak of ray fro lettingget over it.
Something similar seems to happen now too, as if somethings were being kept ignored and now they are creating nuisance. Mind is implicitly pondering over it, and after trying hard, things aren't getting normal.
Not digressing from the theme, Forgiving (which may be one solution) isn't a child's play. It takes huge courage to go for it...
Oops, one important thing to notice..... "All these things matter if you value th person concerned". If person is lies nowhere, then there's no point in thinking so much and get yours nerves down.
So, before even forgiving or thinking of such things, analyze the importance of the person, then one would get over such thoughts very easily.
The thing that I didn't notice here, was that Emotions were being laid a greater stress than Relations and so did such things were happening.....
So, leaving it at a lighter node, Incidents are part n parcel of life, but not people. We gotta deal with people, and not with incidents.... Ryt na...??
Better let it go, and Move On....!!! :)
