Quite long it has been since i am reposting here. Well, I'll focus here on the changing scenario of life and situations affecting our life so much that once those who couldn't remain without other, haven't spoken to themselves since months....
Quite surprising and a bit funny too, but its become a ugly truth with many. During my final year of grads, I used to talk with various pass-outs, about their whereabouts and their relationships and hows there life goin.... Most of them reported that, everything's fine, just friend circle got limited and interactions with friends have gone down exponentially.
One more thing that happened to be observed is the distance or gap which is now felt. The warmth of 4 years of being classmates, being friends is gone... May be if not gone, then definitely got hidden somewhere very deep like those of dinosaurs under earth's crust.
Also, there's been few cases where clash of ego has started and competitions seem to control our lives do much, that we forget that we are first humans, and then competitors.
It could be that, this is my perception and I might have narrowed it, but after trying at level best, its getting tough to carry on the same with all. No doubt, there are few who are still close to you so much that its takes fraction of second to hear them and to feel the same good old friendship, and they are clearly our very own best buddies whom we got to meet.
But as life says, keep the past in past and move on....
Following the same path, because, I don't have whole life to walk my own path and then learn from my experiences, its sometimes better to use others ones. So, following the culture, let past be in there, future is unseen, its better to enjoy present. Take care of the existing relations, and the ones which seem to be gone, either try damn hard and get them back as they were... or just let some get lost away...
During refining of sand, some good part also gets lost, and it happens so for some good only. So, moving on, enjoy the life and life it to your fullest as we get it only once.
Feel free to give your reviews...
Quite surprising and a bit funny too, but its become a ugly truth with many. During my final year of grads, I used to talk with various pass-outs, about their whereabouts and their relationships and hows there life goin.... Most of them reported that, everything's fine, just friend circle got limited and interactions with friends have gone down exponentially.
One more thing that happened to be observed is the distance or gap which is now felt. The warmth of 4 years of being classmates, being friends is gone... May be if not gone, then definitely got hidden somewhere very deep like those of dinosaurs under earth's crust.
Also, there's been few cases where clash of ego has started and competitions seem to control our lives do much, that we forget that we are first humans, and then competitors.
It could be that, this is my perception and I might have narrowed it, but after trying at level best, its getting tough to carry on the same with all. No doubt, there are few who are still close to you so much that its takes fraction of second to hear them and to feel the same good old friendship, and they are clearly our very own best buddies whom we got to meet.
But as life says, keep the past in past and move on....
Following the same path, because, I don't have whole life to walk my own path and then learn from my experiences, its sometimes better to use others ones. So, following the culture, let past be in there, future is unseen, its better to enjoy present. Take care of the existing relations, and the ones which seem to be gone, either try damn hard and get them back as they were... or just let some get lost away...
During refining of sand, some good part also gets lost, and it happens so for some good only. So, moving on, enjoy the life and life it to your fullest as we get it only once.
Feel free to give your reviews...
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